So, there are these white mothers down in Tennessee who worry that textbooks for second graders about the Civil Rights Movement will make their kids feel bad about themselves. You know, there’s pictures of black people being blasted by high-pressure fire hoses and of white people jeering at Ruby Bridges as she tries to attend a segregated public school in Louisiana. And I get it. Content like that is going to raise some questions and who can tell how an impressionable young child will process it all? Maybe they’ll conclude there’s something wrong with them because they’re white.

It’s kind of weird, though, that these white mothers don’t ask how black kids will feel when they discover that blacks were slaves for hundreds of years. You think that might do some damage to their self-esteem? Should we not teach about that in school? The thing is, they’re going to find out anyway from their own families, but without a school lesson the white kids might not hear a peep about the history of white supremacy in Tennessee.

Teaching people history is at least in some sense neutral. It’s true that you can emphasize certain things and you’ll inevitably leave most things out. But it’s not supposed to be about how it makes people feel. That’s largely up to them. We’d like it everyone could agree that slavery and segregation were wrong, but people might come to a different conclusion. Some white kids might conclude they’re naturally superior and the fact that blacks were once enslaved proves this. Some black kids might feel similarly. If that’s the lesson people take from the history, it’s unfortunate but it’s not a reason to censor what happened.

Just today, I learned that Michael Flynn, a white man, former head of the Defense Intelligence Agency, and briefly the national security advisor to President Donald Trump, is going around telling people that the government is going to put COVID-19 vaccine in people’s salad dressing.

Now, that’s something that might one day be taught in a second grade classroom. Kids will learn that a prominent white man was behaving this way during the height of the COVID-19 crisis and that might make the little white boys feel some kind of way about being white. I know that if I felt  a strong solidarity with other white men, Flynn’s behavior would make me ashamed. But I think it would be really silly if I decided this history should be glossed over to preserve my feelings or the feelings of my white son.

Hell, when we teach about the Holocaust, we don’t worry that white Christians will be totally demoralized and consumed with self-hatred. Why? Because what the Nazis did doesn’t reflect on everyone who looks like them or who shares some of the same cultural and religious features. That doesn’t mean I can’t feel a bit shitty about how my own cultural background overlaps German history and development. It doesn’t mean I can’t hang my head a little bit about how my forebears treated Jews. The lesson is supposed to be that I shouldn’t be like them. I shouldn’t repeat their mistakes, let alone their atrocities.

That’s what should be taught about Michael Flynn, too, when all is said and done.

It’s a part of history, and generally speaking, people have been awful to each other for as long as people have existed. All we want is for people to do better, to make progress. It shouldn’t be so controversial, or so hard.