Americans, we are told, are most generous people. We give to one another in many ways. Perhaps the most important donations we make are in our loving and kindly interactions with others each day of the year, our lending of helping hands when difficulties arise, our voulunteering in the greater community, and our providing the broken-spirited with a shoulder to lean on.
At this time of year for seasonal as well as financial planning reasons, those Americans who are fortunate enough to be able to do so, execute most of their charitable contributions. Without prying or tooting a self-aggrandizing horn, I thought it would be interesting and enlightening to discuss the giving habits or styles of the BooTrib Community.
Speaking as a member in mediocre standing, I use the week between Christmas and New Year to support my favorite non-profits in a tax-decuctible way. And while John Hancocking this evening, I became aware that my cheek muscles were starting to ache, and realized that I had been smiling all the while I was draining my purse.
A moment’s thought, and I decided my happy feelings were because I truly cared about the organizations I was donating to. They are folks doing the work in support of causes that I feel passionately about. They are promoting agendas that are politically correct in the sense that, to my way or thinking, their causes are what politics should be about.
I don’t write mega-checks; I just re-cycle a bit of what some investments earned over the year, so it’s really not “my” money at all that I’m giving away since I didn’t earn it by the sweat of my brow. In a sense, it’s Republican-like money, unearned spawn of itself. So, it’s best to get rid of it!
Who are the charities I most adore? Well, I support 10 each year. Not always the same 10, but pretty much so. They range from broad internationals to small narrowly-focused locals. I see the categories of charitable work I go in for are wide-ranging, too: from international development to animal shelters, from medical research to environment causes.
And I try to avoid supporting the really BIG charities, the popular ones, the amorphous do-alls, and the super high profile ones like United Way, the Special Olympics and the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children. I have nothing against them! I just feel that my small drop in the bucket might make a more effective (and I confess — satisfying) splash in a different container.
I try to choose charities that give most of their money directly to those who need it, whether the homeless or the physician. And I try to support charities that reflect my personal values — hence that warm feeling at check-writing time.
Here’s my Top 10 Favorite Charities for 2006
- Oxfam International
- International Medical Corps
- Ashoka
- American Foundation for AIDS Research
- The Conservation Fund
- Planned Parenthood
- National Alliance to End Homelessness
- Habitat for Humanity (for my neighborhood)
- Humane Society Adopt-a-Pet (for my neighborhood)
- Farm Shares (for my immediate neighborhood)
I’d like to read about your favorite charities and something about your rationale for choosing the one’s you support. I know many of you give to charities for deeply personal reasons and may not wish to reveal those to us. But anyone who does want to share, I can’t think of a better way to wash away that horrible lingering miasma of commercialism and materialism that seems to overwhelm the run-up to Dec. 25th.
Your comments will probably allow us all to get a head start on a Happy New Year.
Nice reminder Limelite,
My money really isn’t my own either! Even though what little there is does come by the sweat of my brow ;o) When I was young and single I used to sponsor a couple of children in Africa and South America. It helped to ease my somewhat strange desire for Daddyhood that I had in my early twenties. Strange that is, compared to what my peers were doing with their lives. I also gave to environmental groups like the Sierra Club and the Cousteau Society.
These days, with three kids, I really have nothing of monetary value to give except for the occassional cans of food that I give to local groups who collect for needy families outside of grocery stores and other places. I have to find smaller and more direct ways of offering something. I know that I could probably do far more than I do even though my free time is limited. But if I can on occasion help someone in a meaningful way, like giving rides home to my Salvodoran co-worker so he doesn’t have to wait out in the cold and dark for a bus, or invite a father and son who have nowhere to go for Christmas dinner to my home, or take in the son of friends who can’t afford to take care of all of their children for a few months, those small things are still in the spirit of giving, in the best way I can right now.
And the most important thing that all of us can do is to pay attention to one another each and every day and treat each other with kindness and helpfullness. Even to notice something as small as an old lady not being able to reach something on the top shelf at the store. Or the simple act of holding a door open for someone with a smile. Love, understanding and kindness still have great power to lighten the load of those in need, even if only for that brief moment :o)
Peace
I wonder how your Salvadoran co-worker would feel if he knew what you had written in your reply to the article below that was posted on dailykos 5/21/2006
entitled: Iraq War Grief Daily Witness(photos)Day 456
While you are being “SO GENEROUS” with your canned food donations, why don’t you enquire about whether Vanessa Gamboa is still hungry and homeless ? I’m sure that by now, she’s learned to beg for your handouts in English.
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Iraq War Grief Daily Witness(photos)Day 456
(Crossposted from Dailykos)
Vanessa Gamboa, an Iraq war veteran of the U.S Army and single mother, holds up her new U.S. Citizenship documents after being sworn in as a U.S. Citizen in downtown Brooklyn, New York, May 19, 2006. The 24-year-old single mother originally from Guatamala who was discharged in April, after her second tour in Iraq, returned to New York, had little money, no place to live, and became homeless. Gamboa is part of a small but growing trend among U.S. veterans of the Iraq and Afghanistan wars — homelessness. On any given night there are 200 to 250 of them in America, the Department of Veterans Affairs (VA) says. They are among nearly 200,000 homeless U.S. veterans, largely from the Vietnam War.
REUTERS/Mike Segar
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SUPERSOLINGS REPLY
Goddamned Immigrant
She’s got a lot of nerve thinking she’s entitled to a decent place to live. For all we ‘Murkins know, she slithered across our border illegally. She should be on her knees thanking Jaysus that we even let her set foot in our Military. Oh, and she better understand that when she asks us for more handouts, it better be in English. This is the USA
USA! USA! USA! USA! USA!
by supersoling </user/uid:43385> on Sun May 21, 2006 at 11:51:51 AM PDT </comments/2006/5/21/141224/411/8>
I wonder what prompted you to dig up this old post now.
I do not know you, but I know supersoling and it is obvious to those that do that his comment was 100% snark. He would not have been rated with a bunch of 4’s if that were not the case.
I just want to second what ask already said in his comment, although I can see where someone who did not know supersoling and saw that comment might make the same mistake you did.
Although the 4s should have given you more than a small clue that it was snark.
Haka – why did you even bother to register at this website? Is it a personal vendetta against Supersoling, or a resentment of generous spirits?
You will doubtless find that this is not the place to express your hatred, please go find another.
Ask:
CabinGirl:
Thank you both for pointing out what is considered by others, to be SNARK. Maybe because I’m new to blogging, I’m not familiar with ratings. However, what other people think of supersoling or any, other person, for that matter is irrelevant to me. What matters to me is what I think of the particular “Goddamned Immigrant” comment.
Ask: You wondered why I dug up the comment now. It’s simply because of the extreme opposites in polarity between his comment today and the comment before.
You both stated that you know him well. How well does anybody REALLY KNOW any other, especially given the limitations of internet communications ? Everyone including you and me, has sides that they rarely..if ever..show to others. Sometimes, those sides can secretly be revealed if cleverly disguised as SNARK.
It’s nearly impossible to really know someone until you’ve spent a great deal of time in close proximity with them. That’s why the majority of roomates SUCK after six months. I’m just saying………………
Alice:
Why did I even bother, you ask ? I bothered because I was under the impression that this is a site where I could freely voice my opinion. Isn’t that why you bothered ?
Express my hatred ?…WTF ? Show me one hateful word that I wrote. If I wanted to express hatred, I would have called him a “Goddamed, two faced biggot” !
If you can’t handle someone confronting your benevolent supersoling…perhaps it’s you who should leave. I’m quite sure that he can defend himself without you.
Hi haka,
no, ask and CabinGirl (and me) all actually know supersoling in real life. Booman people have meet-ups and make acquaintances. So, they meant they know him in the literal sense.
Hi Booman,
Thank you for clarifying your personal aquaintance with supersoling. Keep in mind, everytime the news interviews the neighbors of prolific serial killers, they ALL say that he was “SUCH A NICE GUY”…. Not that I’m saying supersoling is a homicidal maniac or anything..
Peace.
yeah, I’m pretty sure most of the bodies in the East River were put there by supersoling.
charitably.
Won’t it be fun when some tyro digs your post out of the archives 7 months from now in order to try to pillory you out of ignorance?
Pull up your Adirondacks and reserve a space for round two, BooTribbers.
If you are new to blogging it may be a good idea to read FAQs and maybe hang around to get a feel for the place before posting controversial comments like yours above. This is a community blog and we try to observe some minimum standards.
Booman’s only true rule is: “Don’t be a prick!”
You’ve introduced yourself to the community with two prickish comments – not a good start.
How well does anybody REALLY KNOW any other, especially given the limitations of internet communications ?
How about this:
super and I did all of those.
Just a suggestion:
Stick around and find out what Supersoling and all of the others here are truely like. Then you can make your own decision. Give us a chance to surprise you a bit.
There are many here, Supersoling included, that I look upon with the same spirit of camraderie that I share with my Army buddies. Loyal, honest, and always trying to do their best while, at the same time, spurring everyone else on at doing their best. Definately a different kindof battlescar that we all share here, but tried and true nonetheless.
This diary is a perfect example of that… Just a quick reminder for everyone to do something, anything, to help others if you can. And, maybe even, how to do to it in a better way.
Wow! You must really have a lot of time on your hands, and your snark meter is apparently turned off as well.
This type of nonsense is of no interest here at Booman. . . so get a life, preferably one that doesn’t hold on to such vendetta type comments. If you have a problem with supersoling, work it out with him, but you’ll find no enablers here at the pond.
I believe that I ‘WAS’ adressing supersoling. Otherwise, I would have sent my comment to you. Mind your own business and let supersoling reply, if he chooses to. I have no desire to get caught up in the crossfire of supersolings circle jerking fan club.
Now you’re really showing what an ass you are.
Have a zero.
Gosh, if I knew we was havin a circle jerk I woulda shown up sooner! It’s been a while…unfortunately ;o)
despicable remarks, why not keep to the tenor of the diary and reveal your charitable nature?
Right now, you don’t appear to have one.
You are absolutely right and I sincerely apologize if I cast a negative shadow on your diary. I tip my hat to you, limelite, for the beautiful sentiments that you expressed therein. It just so happened that supersolings comment to your diary triggered the memory of his previous comment on dailykos and I felt the need to confront him on it. I was not addressing anyone else but him. And yes, I ‘do’ have a charitable side…but that’s my private concern.
Once again, my apologies to you and to the spirit of your diary. It really was lovely.
peace.
Here I am.
You see, not only have your comments hijacked this diary, your comments violated the singular rule of this blog, which ask has read you, and you’ve persisited in spreading your vitriol when the community-spirited thing to do would have been to acknowledge that veterans of this blog might have a little more wisdom than you regarding its members and be guided by it.
You’ve done half the right thing. The other half of the right thing would be to discontinue being a prick.
That would be good enough for me.
OK. I tried to apologize but that wasn’t good enough for you. Instead, you turned around and called me a prick. So much for the tenor of your diary. With the exception of Booman and CabinGirl, you’ve all been a bunch of pricks. So…DIMLIT..KISS MY ASS !
P.S. Sorry Booman. I won’t intrude anymore. If you want me out of here, I’ll split.
I’ll kick it.
With the exception of your apology for being disrespectful to me, your other comments have been rude. This last is offensive. You used this diary to conduct a personal attack on a highly regarded member of this community citing a post that person made on a different blog; that has no place here.
Every BooTribber was a neophyte blogger at some point, including me. I doubt any of them, and I know not I, ever misconducted themselves to the extent you have. Pleading “new to blogging” is no excuse. Besides you’re not. By your own admission, you’ve at least been a lurker there (and possibly here) for several months. That’s enough time to learn the rules — and follow them.
As far as I am concerned, don’t let the door smack your unkissed ass on your way out. I’ve been charitable to it here.
By my own admission ? When did I admit to “lurking” for months on ANY site ? Just because I read a comment that was WRITTEN 7 months ago, doesn’t mean that I READ it 7 months ago. In fact, I read it for the first time just a little over a week ago. That’s why I was able to recall it so easily. I came upon it through a link that was sent to me in a personal email.
One link lead to another and VOILA, I ended up at Booman Tribune, where I came across a familiar user name…Supersoling. And for your information, the original diary by RubDMC on dailykos that supersoling SNARKED about was also posted on this site and others.
I hope all of the frogs in your pond don’t leap to as many conclusions as you do. Oh yeah..as far as you kicking my ass…Good luck with that. Feeling Froggy ?
LEAP !!
Why don’t you say what’s really on your mind? Seems you had to dig pretty hard to find that comment, unless it’s been pissing you off for the entire 7 months since I wrote it and now was a good opportunity to throw it back in my face. That, or you have a problem with me that’s deeper than this one snarky comment. Thing is, I hate snark. It gobbles up too much space at dKos. But I was weak…I confess.
What else ya got?
Nahhhhh. I pretty much said what I wanted to say. Anything else posted here would only be more disrespectful than I’ve already been to limelites’ diary.
Peace on earth..goodwill towards men. (and critters)
Well, you asked for a reply and you have it. But I doubt you could be more disrespectful to Limelite than you already have. My email is in my comments. That would have been the way to go. And i’m always open to examining how my comments affect people. Wrong or right.
Peace
Supersoling,
Thanks for the 4 rating you gave to my apology to limelite. He/she wasn’t quite so “charitable”. I guess that since limelite couldn’t give me a -4, he/she decided to just call me a prick. You showed that you are willing to be objective and open to criticism, while everyone else, with the exception of Booman and CabinGirl, went right for my throat. It also appears that several of my replies from last night have been creativly edited out, thus making your pals look finer than frogs hair and me look like a pile of toad poo.
I won’t waste anymore of your time and won’t come around again.
Safe and happy holidays to all.
Comments that have a certain number of troll ratings disappear. They weren’t edited out. FWIW.
I’m pretty sure it does go deeper super – SallyCat, aka “pig hunting dance” has probably been keeping that comment handy for a while now and been itching to use it.
Except it was snark… not as good snark as I’ve ever read, but snark nonetheless.
I know you’ve been trying hard to pick a fight around here and I know I’m high on your list of contenders, and of course I care a lot for SallyCat so naturally you hope to flush something from the bushes of those you dislike around here. This is just so sad though. Wouldn’t it be better for you and your life overall if you focused on something else less acidic. SallyCat was once very close to Super and then the fallout over military issues ended that. SallyCat was very very hurt and I’m sure to some extent that she still is but lives by the creed of “first do no harm”. In her ideal world she and Super would still be caring friends. There is no way this has anything to do with SallyCat.
Sorry, was I speaking to you? I seem to recall telling you to leave me the fuck alone or I would not be civil. I don’t give a flying fuck what you think about me tracy. You have made it quite clear that you enjoy picking fights with me – I participate on this site when I feel like it. Especially when I see shitty logic and piling on. But today I logged in for the first time because I recognized the tone and writing style. End of story. Perhaps you could get a life instead of following me around.
Yeah, and Sally was soooo upset with her behaviour I’m sure she issued a fake apology like you did. Whatever.
Sallycat hasn’t posted around here in six months or more. It’s just weird that you would stop by and call her out like that. It sort of lacks class. But what do I know – I’m sanctimonious and hypocritical.
Postings on public websites are just that – public. Tracy or anyone else can read and respond.
SN, I read and lurk here as I choose, when I can. Sometimes I feel a desire to respond, most times I do not. I happen to like supersoling and took much offense to what was said to him by a person I take to be SallyCat. I could be wrong, oh well, I could care less, but whatever, I felt like responding to supersoling.
Tracy has harrassed and insulted and used profantity laced diatribes against myself, my country, and other posters here. I think she’s a troll and a vicious person, so I have asked her repeatedly to leave me alone. She does not so I respond to her as I see fit taking into account her history.
It is a free internet and I can post what I choose as well, contrary to tracy, or your wishes. And btw, I never called you any names, but whatever your beef is with me have at it. This piling on bullshit is getting pretty old.
I never thought that the poster above would be Sallycat – she seems pretty content to be done with this place.
You did call me those names at Mo beta meta or whatever that other place is. It was both shocking and amusing because I’m neither of those things and have never experienced someone’s outspoken loathing of me before.
Super is super and he and I have disagreed about topics before and it’s nice to see people here come to his defense when something so over the top happens. It’s a good community. I’d like you to participate more.
Thank you, SN, and I apologize if I called you those names, it was a very raw time and one I don’t wish to repeat as the feelings are still heated, hence my request to Tracy in the link below to please leave me alone for the peace of the community. Our differences are irreconcilable and I’m perfectly content not to rehash them every time I post here.
In terms of Sallycat, like I said, I could be wrong, but the question was asked repeatedly as to what the new posters beef could be with super… the style and tone, and animosity matched imo and so I mentioned it. But anyway, not important in the long run.
Have a happy, healthy, peaceful new year, spiderleaf. Hope to see you around.
Happy New Year to you and your family Second Nature, I hope your daughter is on the mend and your family enjoys a wonderful 2007.
spidey, just for your information, that poster is located in Boca Rotan, Florida, so I do not think it is possible that it is SallyCat. She lives, or lived, in San Rafael, California.
Thanks Boo… sorry SallyCat for having the wrong impression. Now I’m just befuddled as to why someone would have a beef with super.
No life? That’s my guess. And like shirl said, the snark detector was turned off.
Number one, I have NO IDEA who SallyCat is or what kind of relationship she has with Supersoling but I can assure you all that I am NOT she. I think that paranoia and personal feelings toward SallyCat have gotten the best of someone.
Number two, I have no personal vendetta against Supersoling or any other person on this or any other site. Apparently, I’m ignorant to the art of snarking and found myself ass deep in snark infested waters.
I addressed my comment solely to Supersoling and he replied with waaaay more integrity than most of his supporters did. He showed that he is open to criticism and capable of defending himself without calling me a PRICK, like a couple of others did.
Number three, I would like to thank you Booman, for trying to share my personal info with everyone !!! OOPS..SNARK BITE. So much for feeling a sense of anonnimity and security. Why don’t you try drawing a map to my house next time ? By the way, I don’t live anywhere near Boca Rotan, Florida. I LIVE IN A VAN, DOWN BY THE RIVER !!!!!!!!
“I LIVE IN A VAN, DOWN BY THE RIVER!”
That wouldn’t happen to be the East River, would it? Maybe that was really you dumping all those bodies in there…just sayin’.
</snark>
Hi CabinGirl.
Actually, I have a nice, cozy spot on the bank of the SPAMAZON river π and no, it’s not me who’s been dumping bodies. As Charles Manson said, “If I was to start killing people, there would be none of ya left”.
(Well…maybe a few. There ARE still some good humans)
Thanks for not biting my head off in your reply to my comment the other day.
PEACE.
Haka,
I wanted to explain that the comment that you referred to in RubDmc’s wasn’t snark. Others upthread labeled it snark. I hate that shit. What I wrote was sarcasm. And I was pissed that day. Pissed at all the Toby Kieth ignorant redneck freaks that want to put a boot in the ass of anyone who’s different or takes a stand against American exceptionalism. If you check you’ll see that I had a history of posting respectfully in Rub’s diaries for a long, long time. That is until I could no longer say with honesty that I love and support our troops unconditionally, a requirement that Rub added later on. So I stopped out of respect to him and those that do still love and support the troops.
Anyway, Booman Tribune is far from snark infested waters. DailyKos better fits that description. Many of us came here from there for that reason and others because BT is a small island of sanity where we treat each other with respect (for the most part). There is a very strong core of remarkable women here who I think are the heart and soul of the place and kind of act as an invisible moral and ethical guide for us all.
Maybe you’ll stick around and read some of the diaries of those like Scribe, Shirlstars, SusanW, Kahli and so many others. Including the good men that post here. If you haven’t ever read a rant against militarism by BostonJoe then you’re really missing something :o)
Take care
and btw SN, if you’d like some recent context behind my request to Tracy to leave me alone and stop harrasing me, it can be found here: http://www.boomantribune.com/comments/2006/12/14/235018/56/51#51
I’m still uncomfortable with the loss of SallyCat’s friendship Tracy. Just like I was uncomfortable and a little distressed by your’s and my falling out. It’s the same quality or curse that makes me sad when I see all former friends at each other’s throats. None of us, none, will ever agree on everything. Most of us will find a way to overcome our differences and appreciate what it is that we do have in common. Then there are some, like Sally and me, whom I miss here at BT and in my life, and apparently you and Spiderleaf, that might never again set foot on that common ground that you once found together. That is, in this most tragic time in our common history what breaks my heart the most.
In the spirit that this diary was written so beautifully by Limelite, I’m asking you please…to let it go. If you absolutely can find no possible way to reach out your hand, then just don’t respond to Spiderleaf. Truth is I’m very drawn to both of you, among a few others here. I have a childlike hope that still survives all the bullshit i’ve experienced in my life that keeps shoving some brightside in my face when logic and common sense tells me to move on. I want to shine it on you, on Spiderleaf, even on George Bush. We’re all in this fucked up mess together and the only way we’ll get out of it is together.
With love and hope
I think it goes deeper too…but never in a million years would I believe that SallyCat would make a sneak attack like that on me. She is direct and honest. I appreciate your defense of me, like the others. It’s a wonder to me what I ever did in my life to deserve friends like each of you who have defended me. But you’re wrong about SallyCat.
You deserve every bit of it. You are an honest, open, and plain old stand up guy.
You’re right about my misjudgement and I apologize for jumping to conclusions. Thanks to you, Boo, and SN who set me straight on the SallyCat issue. I let my own emotions get away from me… never a good time to post.
Happy New Year buddy and please give my and CT’s best to your most excellent supercrew. We miss you all terribly.
Listen, supercrew aside, I wish like all hell that I could celebrate the new year in Toronto :o) I’m feeling a little disenfranchised lately ;o)
And as far as letting emotions get the best of a situation, I’d rather you or anyone speak from the heart as a first intinct, instead of logic. I have a lifetime of apologies as proof of that prefernce :o)
Take care and my best to CookTing
Hey, come on up, we have a couch to crash on π
You have my # – if the mood strikes it’s a short 9 hour drive… pick up a case of Keith’s at the duty free on your way in π
The Cook sends his best right back at you.
I suggest that people change their ratings to 0 so that this sad thread become hidden to the greater public. It otherwise an excellent entry.
Like you, I have a weakness for strays on the side of the road, whether human, or (mostly) canine.
Imagine — if we all aided the “strays” we encounter in our lives how many could be taken care of until they get back on their feet or, when dogs, get placed in a permanent home. In the latter case, it’s usually mine. Doggone! (Hmm, that word just doesn’t seem to work.)
Well, thank you…but ;o)
I don’t think of people as strays. And I know that’s not what you meant. I just remember too many times when I was strapped or without a ride, cold, tired…you know. I don’t do things for my personal benefit, though it does make me feel good to do something nice. We’re all in this together is I guess how I see it. I take, I give, I take again. And I keep my ears open :o)
Here’s my list. As may be apparent, I prefer organizations that have focused goals and that recognize that small steps forward are progress.
The Nature Conservancy
I greatly admire this organization. They are amazingly successful at both making incremental change and turning a series of incremental changes into larger victories.
Habitat for Humanity
If only the federal housing program was good as Habitat’s.
Women for Women International
This organization works with women in countries suffering from the effects war and civil strife through economic, civil, and emotional support. Their programs include micro-loans and vocational training.
The Humane Society
Having taken in dogs that were abandoned by my house and adopted dogs from the local shelter, I’m highly appreciative of the Humane Society’s work.
Court-Appointed Special Advocates
This organization trains and assigns volunteers from the local community to advocate for abused and neglected children in the court system.
I see your charitable bent leans a lot like mine. Like I was commenting above, my house/farm is considered the de facto humane society for the surrounding 8.5 square miles, judging by the numbers of stray dogs, cats, ponies, cows, ducks, etc. we’ve “adopted” during the past 20 years.
Thanks for the reminder, Limelite. I don’t like to have to think about income tax during this season, so have a different approach. I’m on everybody’s easy-mark list and am buried in solicitations year-round. I respond to appeals on rare occasion, depending, with preference to local groups (Habitat, Humane Society, Safe Place and Rape Crisis Center.)
We have one credit card where a small monthly contribution goes to our favorite activists. This is an expected bill every month – makes it easier for us and for them – they like to be able to plan on a certain income.
Those organizations are:
Natural Resources Defense Council , Greenpeace , People for the Ethical Treatment of Animals , FINCA International providing microfinance loans around the world – usually to women. Also Amnesty USA. Just a few dollars a month keeps you on their mailing list and up to date with their achievements.
Working Assets is also a great way to share the wealth and track your expenses.
Whew! – six links at once. Hope Oui is watching.
Credit card giving is a credit to you! But I’d miss that warm feeling I get by writing checks. It’s an emotion I ‘m unwilling to automate out of my life. Somehow, paying off the cc each month just wouldn’t do it for me.
My spouse supports a lot of environmental groups like NRDC and Sierra, so I have to be careful not to duplicate his efforts. Spread the limited wealth, as it were.
Writing a diary is risky business, huh? At least you didn’t suffer a lack of comments.
I regret my unexpected and aggressive contibution to the fray. Hope I’ve learned my lesson here. How sad that there’s no escaping conflict. We try, but alas –
The magic of technology has “drawn the veil.”
I usually give whatever I can to childrens charities. Preferably the ones where almost all of the money is used to help the kids and have little or no “overhead” costs to run the charities themselves.
I also try and make a point of giving to BOTH international intiatives and ones that help the poor kids here at home.
When it comes to charity my motto is “Give what you can and take what you need!”
I grew up with a bit of a silver spoon in my mouth(very upper middle-class), but none of that came with me when I moved out of my parents house… So I have lived very well, lived poor as can be, and everywhere in between over the years. It’s been like a freakin’ rollercoaster over the years and we are back at somewhere in between right now. We could go either way (again) over the next little while… lol π
I cited in my diary is rated as one of the best in getting results, operating efficiently, and getting the heftiest percentage possible of its income directly applied to where it will do the most good.
The whole business of evaluating charities on the above criteria and others is interesting. I’m grateful that the Internet has made the job much easier than it was 10 years ago.
When I was in the military you could have donations taken right off your paycheck for hundreds of charities. They also handed out a guide that explained the basics of each charity, and also included each charities % that was used in “overhead” costs. Some of them have such huge operating budgets for obviously good reasons, others use large portions just to advertise their operations and create more donations, which ain’t so good IMHO. Like you said, the internet provides other ways to evaluate as well.
What resources I have available I use to give to individuals as their need becomes apparent to me, I do however continue to support our local Hospice Care, as all the money they receive goes directly to the care of those in Hospice.
at the end of the month but I give what I can when I am able. My favorite right now is IVAW. They are doing good work.(Iraq Vets Against the War). Met quite a few back in Crawford. They are sooooo young.
Great diary, Limelite.
You all have mentioned so many good charities. I’d like to suggest one that is close to home for many people: Your local Child Care Coordinating Council – widely know as 4C. This organization isn’t about doing childcare – though it often trains local child care workers and recruits more people to becoming home-based caretakers. Rather, it fills gaps, and pulls together child-serving organizations that do good, but don’t provide all that children need. Especially since our “safety net” is little more than a frayed vestige of knotted strings barely hanging together, these local and state organizations are doing essential good. Some examples:
Those are a few of the things my local 4C is doing.
Check them out especially if you want your dollars to go to kids where you live.
Excellent diary! Today is the last business day of the year, and I’m doing the same thing, although it has been a tough year financially.
My wife and I try to approximately tithe–5 percent of aftertax income from our business, plus miscellaneous contributions throughout the year.
Money is a mysterious thing. We’ve observed that we always feel most prosperous and free of financial worries in the years when we are most generous.
For more than 20 years I’ve been contributing to Catholic Charities (the biggest and the most honest of all the big charities), Amnesty International and Human Rights Watch.
I’d like to mention that over the past several years I’ve felt it most important to contribute to:
Happy New Years to all
P.S. That Supersoling really is a knothead freak! How did a winger like that ever get on this site!!?? /snark
Award for 2006 goes to. . . .
I’d like to offer a recommendation for one of the best books I’ve read in a LONG time The Soul of Money by Lynne Twist.
Here’s the synopsis from Powells:
It says there are 63 comments to this thread but I am only seeing maybe 12? What is going on?
flamewar.
Good morning leezy,
There was a troll in the thread yesterday, so that sub-thread is now hidden. Maybe your options are set so that you cannot see hidden comments?