It’s rare that I find myself watching Fox News. It’s usually the commercials and the seduction of the clicker. But when I do, it sometimes stops me in my tracks.
Fox & Friends: “Do you know that Hillary Clinton’s website gets as many hits as a lot of porn sites?”…The conversation then degenerates into snickering and sidelong comments by Doocy about who watches porn sites. Gretchen hikes her skirt. The giggling continues. The motive is clear–provide subliminal connections between Senator Clinton and the lowest instincts of male viewers.
Another salvo in the growing war on women.
I vowed not to go back to Fox–even by accident–but I knew if I did I’d find more of the same. They discuss the upholstery on Senator Clinton’s couch in her announcement message, criticize Speaker Pellosi’s red cape. O’Reilly has almost totally abandoned politics for stories of cheerleaders and female middle school teachers gone bad. So have the others. Sex sells, especially sexist sex. It’s the politics of the decade.
This isn’t the place for a feminist “history of the world.” But I challenge you to read these quotes and tell me if they were made in 1934 or 2004. (Bracketed comments my own)
Dear…Women and Girls…when we think back on our parents, grandparents and great grandparents, there were many children in the house. It may have been crowded and hard financially, but we were happy, perhaps because there were so many of us in so large a family. But the time came when…a false teaching arose in the last century…The fewer people there are, the more an individual child can inherit from his parents…the terrible teaching of birth control, which [some] preached and the [common people] followed…
Are you selfish, unpatriotic women paying attention yet? Here’s the next quote:
[They believe that] only a determination among…women to take up their submissive, motherly roles with a ‘military air’ and become ‘maternal missionaries’ will lead the…army to victory…Population is a preoccupation for many…who trade statistics on the falling white birthrate…Every ethnic conflict becomes evidence for their worldview…The motivations aren’t always racist, but the subtext of ‘race suicide’ is often there…out-and-out offensive against birth control…selfish white women…[do not] honor their duty to bear children for the nation.
The first quote: Dr. Groß, “Nationalsozialistische Rassenpolitik. Eine Rede an die deutschen Frauen (Dessau, C. Dünnhaupt, 1934). It was the basis of the start of the Holocaust. The second, a cogent description of the “Quiverfull” movement today, from The Nation. Some say we are too sensitive to subtle hints of racism in the rhetoric of ultra-conservatives today. What would a Holocaust survivor say?
On a rainy day, try a little surfing. You can find emergent signs of anti-woman rhetoric all over the media. I don’t believe they are reactions to the rising power of Pelosi or Clinton, but rather a sign of the increasing paranoia of weak, white, undereducated men who used to dominate their homes and communities by sheer numbers.
On the simplest level, this is stupid. The Chinese have harnessed the economic and creative power of women. So have the Europeans. Are we to cut our potential in half?
On a moral level, it’s even more shocking because women are complicit. We’ve lowered the bar on what we are prepared to do to send the message that women are only here for reproduction. A Tampa woman is jailed after a rape and denied medication to prevent pregnancy. A woman in a minor traffic incident is denied help for a pending miscarriage, as police tell her she is “stupid” and doesn’t realize she’s menstruating. In both cases, it was a woman who was committing the crime against another woman.
The last time we took a long road trip I brought along an old tape of The Handmaid’s Tale. I wanted to raise my husband’s consciousness. The tape snarled, and I utterly failed at explaining to him how prescient that old book was. This is not a new technique. Demeaning women for political and demographic power has happened again and again. But it’s a trend we need to note, and fight, in every context in which it appears.
This post at the Daily Howler does a great job of showing how the press treats women who don’t know their place.
Have we gotten nowhere?
And sigh again. . .it sometimes seems we have gotten nowhere at all.
I am continually shocked into disbelief by statements from some young women that the ERA is a law, that women are already treated equally, that women shouldn’t complain because they already are treated “better than” men, that being a mother and a wife is a woman’s duty, that’s why they are made the way they are.. . …and other like statements. Their perceptions are astonishing to me. They don’t have any idea what feminism is about except that it was a bunch of “hippies” that didn’t want to wear makeup and probably most of them wanted to be men so therefore they were or are obviously lesbians.
Sort of ranks up there with the belief that you can get aids from a toilet seat. Yeah, they have that one too.
I won’t bother to go into the amazing attitude of the 20-30 year old young men I worked with. Deeply resentful and hateful about women’s equality, such as it is.
Banging head against the keyboard. . .all I can do, I guess.
History is already being rewritten about the women’s movement. Makes me want to scream!!
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Veronica Berlusconi
"But I will not let myself be reduced to silence."
It is. And the sad thing is about his “flirtations”, is that his wife is really hot. 🙂
Why does he need to be hitting on a 31 year old legislator?
For many of us of my generation (born 1940) this is all is very very difficult to witness. How to describe the helpless feeling of hearing many todays young women seeing nothing wrong with the re-objectification of women that is happening all over the place. We actually lived the inevitable outcome of this. We KNOW how it feels when women are seen by society as possessions of men, whose only role is to serve and reproduce. And do we ever know how it feels to have our attempts to tell these true stories, to try to reach younger women and men, dismissed as the irrevelant whinings of some “womens studies set..”
My personal victory lies in knowing I finally liberated myself fully, and that have raised two powerfully independent daughters, who each are now raising powerfully independent daughters of their own. This crap ended with me, and now the future lies with them.
Back in 2005, also inspired by Fox – a diary called Hating women was posted.
One of the 137 respondents posted this poem on it:
Finally, I put that long hotlist to use. I hope your diary will inspire as much discussion. This conversation must continue. The fight for justice is never over.
Thank you.
I don’t want to let guys off the hook, but I agree that women can be very complicit in this system of institutionalized bias.
I know very few younger women willing to call themselves Feminists. That term has been tarnished even more severely than the term liberal.
If one objects to sexim, one is often ridiculed. Many women don’t want to subject themselves to that. For some reasons the rewards of accepting objectification seem greater than the risk of demanding respect.
Click the link on the second quote. While some of the pressure to pop out kids and home school them (to the point at which they can no longer discuss anything in a positive way with anyone who disagrees with them) is coming from men, the article clearly documents that the majority of the pressure is from women.
The reverse elitism of having a child every 18 months and becoming a martyr makes it easy to want others to suffer with you.
In a way, today’s young women are victims of the success of older feminists. We were able to shut down overt sexism and discrimination in a remarkably short amount of time. But we barely made a start with the cultural norms that define the acceptable roles and behaviors for women, leaving these young women with a society that delivers the message that women have every opportunity to be and do whatever they want while still constantly defining and limiting them in ways that undercut that very message.
OTOH, you can might be heartened by visiting the sites of some of the many dynamic young feminists out there. Here’s just few —
Feministing
Echidne of the Snakes
Pandagon
Pinko Feminist Hellcat
She’s Such a Geek
Thanks. I wan’t aware of all of these.
Here’s a great blog with a greater blogroll of progressive women bloggers: What She Said!
Wow! thanks for that — what a great list!
you’re welcome, please spread it around…
Good discussion. I just posted an entry on my blog yesterday:
Life Is Too Short
…to hang around with people who aren’t feminists, and to tolerate the blatherings of people who want to sideline the feminist movement, stifle feminist voices, and push the Democrats closer to anti-feminist conservatism. I have a strong sense that this is happening and it’s making me madder than hell.
I’ve heard from a lot of supposed “progressives” that they’re “egalitarians” more than feminists: as in “I believe everyone should have equal rights”, “women’s issues are everyone’s issues”, etc.
But this misses the point by a mile. I’m all for “equal rights for everyone” but when the focus is taken off of the oppression of women, it’s no longer feminism, and it’s no longer serving and supporting women as they need to be served and supported.
I’m tired of this dilution of feminism and this avoidance of focusing on women. Women need feminism, dammit!
A friend shared this with me a few days ago:
You always share these profound poems that I have never heard before. Thanks for that.
Just like the radical and royalist brands of Islam that our own jihadists so often rail about.